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Panic! At The Korean Restaurant... Know God's will & make confident DECISIONS.

We're sharing a 4-part framework to help you go from CONFUSION to CLARITY.

Happy Monday, friend!!

A quick story that we can all relate with at SOME level…

So the other day, we were having our weekly date night (our favorite day!!), and we decided to try out a new Korean restaurant! 😍 

It had pretty good reviews, though we noticed a trend… people kept saying:

“Don’t go for the service.” 😆

(That’s a good sign, btw, of an “authentic” Asian restaurant… 👌 )

Now, we get to the restaurant. We get seated.

And immediately upon opening the menu, I go… “uh-oh.”

Why?

Because… at that moment, I realized we had unknowingly picked the CHEESECAKE FACTORY of Korean restaurants. 🫠 

Meaning:

The menu. was. HUMUNGOUS.

(I think you know where I’m going with this…)

Well, the dreaded moment arrives way too quickly… all of a sudden, the server is hovering over us.

I don’t even think she said anything. But the expectation was clear as she stared at us.

“What do you want?”

ONE of us (I won’t say who, but maybe you can guess 😜) places an order.

The other, well… is pretty much paralyzed, eyes DARTING all over the menu.

😰 😰 😰 

“Uuuhhhhhhh…”

Before finishing that thought, the server - STILL without saying a word - promptly leaves us.

🤦‍♀️ 

Have you ever been in a situation like that?

Maybe it was at a restaurant trying to decide on an order… or maybe you were with other people trying to decide on a RESTAURANT…

OR maybe it was something bigger, like what JOB to pursue, what PERSON to date (or marry!), what OPPORTUNITIES to say yes to.

Regardless of what it was, you know the feeling…

Feeling STUCK in DECISION PARALYSIS.

And the “panic” is NOT fun!

Both of us have faced (and continue to face!) our fair share of difficult decisions - and the unnecessary stress that often comes with it.

But through the crossroads in our own journeys, we've learned some super valuable lessons and tips that we want to share to help you discern God's will - and how he is leading you.

Today, we’re unpacking some factors that make decision-making so hard... and walk you through 4 categories of important questions that have helped us a lot in discerning between what's a "good" vs. a "should."

 Episode 18 is OUT NOW  

From Confusion to CLARITY

A 4-Part Framework For Discerning God's Will ("Good" vs. "Should")

💬 Join us for this conversation as we unpack…

  • What actually makes decision-making so hard?

  • Alex & Grace’s personal journeys & struggles with making decisions

  • How to discern between multiple "good" options with more clarity & confidence

  • 4 Important Principles / Categories to consider (with helpful questions to reflect on) to help you make decisions aligned with God’s will

  • Practical steps & encouragements  

  • & more…

We hope this conversation and framework helps you break free from analysis paralysis... and instead, find God's divine wisdom and guidance from amidst all the noise, in order to step forward with clarity, purpose, and confident faith!  

P.S. Don’t worry… we eventually did get our food. And it WAS delicious!! 🤤 

The service… not as much 😅 

A happy ending 😂🙌

If you DO find this episode helpful… please let us know / share your thoughts in the comments! 😍 

And don’t forget to share with a friend OR tag us when you share on social media! It helps us spread the impact further!! 🤍 

Love you guys!!!

Alex & Grace

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